Q&A Tantra Bodywork

A tantric session combines various massage and breathing techniques and is connected to the philosophy of tantra. This is a personal and spiritual growth path that harnesses sexual expression, sensuality, and deep awakening. 

The intention of the tantric session is to give a new way of accessing one's body, to show new areas of experience and to integrate sexuality into life as something nurturing, energetic, and present.

 Traditionally yes. 

-Many of us are used to seeing nudity as a natural thing. In this case, after the preliminary discussion, we can go straight into the session. 

-We can of course start the session with modifications/different variations of clothing if needed. 

No, there is no ordinary sex. No intercourse. No jerking off.

-There is a lot of sensuality and a long dance with high erotic energy.

-Nevertheless, you can still have an orgasm during a tantric session. Ejaculation is not seen as the goal of the session, but rather as something natural that can happen. Ultimately, each of us has a completely different sensual sensation.  

When you learn to understand and master sexual energy, the doors are open for you to progress in your relationships, in Tantra, and ultimately in life itself.

For many people, this is enough. For others, this results in an increase in energy, body awareness, joy of life, self-determination and self-acceptance.

We always stay in our roles and there is no mutual interaction.

Within the session you are the receiver and you remain passive – it’s about you and your physical perception. I do welcome you to express yourself through movement, sounds, the breath etc. Of course, you can also express if you don't like a certain touch, if you're ticklish, and so on.

We are normally conditioned to react immediately after receiving sensual touch, to show gratitude or to demand more. When this happens, we are in a typical give-and-take situation. We want to consciously redirect this behavior within the session. 

Consciously regulating the breath through mindfulness is key within the session.

(In other words, pranayama)

“Prana” is a term for life energy (compare also Qi);

“Ayama” can be translated as “control” or “expand”.

So we slowly learn to breathe satisfying breaths full of life energy. 

Many of us go about our daily lives without even realizing that we breathe because we live (and vice versa). It is important to become aware of the universal quality of breathing. 

Draw in the air and feel it all the way until it fills your lungs. Now breathe out slowly through your mouth.

Take this time just for that, for yourself, to feel. Your own body, mind and soul. Take this time to notice your inner processes. What you notice and how it feels.

Yes, the genitals are massaged as well. Unless you don't want that. 

There are two types of intimate massage: one for the female sex (in Tantra language - Yoni), and one for the male sex ( - Lingam).

The Yoni Massage

The well-known sexologist (and porn actress, porn producer, feminist and sex educator) Annie M. Sprinkle modernised the ancient Daoist Yoni Massage in the 1980s and made it accessible to the Western public.

This involves massaging the inner and outer labia, the anus, the mons veneris, as well as the clitoris and the G-spot. The different layers of skin, mucous membrane, connective tissue, clitoral and vaginal erectile tissue as well as the musculature are worked on through pulling, stretching and pressure stimuli as well as gentle body touch.

Depending on the physical constitution, tensions can also be released and pelvic floor muscles strengthened. 

Yes, the genitals are massaged as well. We will establish the boundaries during the pre-talk.  

There are two types of intimate massage: one for the female sex (in Tantra language - Yoni), and one for the male sex ( - Lingam).

The Lingam Massage

Lingam massage is a traditional tantric massage that has three purposes. Starting with techniques to clear blockages in the blood flow and lymph to strengthen erection. 

According to Tantric and Taoist theory, negative emotions get stored in your sexual organs in these reflexology areas. This can happen to people who are sexually assaulted, but can also happen to people who have had any bad sexual experiences, such as being ashamed about their sexuality, pain from the break-up of a relationship, surgical procedures, and so on.

The third part of lingam massage is the build-up to the big draw. As the sexual energy builds up, I’ll redirect the sexual energy up your body. It will rise up to your Heart, creating a palpable sensation, a warmth and tingling that connects your Heart with your sexual area. As the energy starts to flow up your body, it brings a tingling euphoric sensation up into the head. 

This feeling is sexual energy moving through your body. Instead of escaping as an ejaculation, which most men think is the normal course, it takes a different course, nourishing your whole body with orgasmic life-force energy.

The anal and prostate massage 

(Not necessary to experience the full tantric session, usually reserved for established clients and those whom are interested in exploring. )  

The prostate gland is considered to be the master gland by Taoists and its health is of utmost importance. Prostate massage can be offered as a preventative treatment, including prostate cancer. Physical toxins as well as emotional toxins and traumas accumulate here, causing blockages which can eventually lead to health problems.

The massage can lead to a deep relaxation of the whole pelvic floor. For men who are looking to prolong sexual experiences, it’s very effective in reducing the imminent need to ejaculate. It can also heighten sexual experience and orgasm, as well as having a balancing effect on our emotions, reducing feelings like anger, frustration and fear.

Of course, you can also enjoy a tantric massage if you have erection problems.

Through the many unintentional and loving touches, through the shared pleasurable breathing and the shared building of the erotic energy field, you can ride the wave of ecstasy even without having an erection. 

Sometimes the erection comes and goes, the cock does what it wants. This is completely natural and OK. In our loving atmosphere you can learn to feel Eros without the pressure to perform. 

Ecstasy used to be called “rapture”. Ecstasy is a term for intense, exceptional psychological states. Trance can occur and greatly alter normal perception. The term comes from the Greek word (“to step out of oneself”). 

For ecstasy to happen, you have to let go, and self-control can step back for a moment, or better yet for a few hours, and surrender can take over…

In tantric philosophy, sexual energy is described as the strongest energy. It is located in the sacral chakra. It is awakened and moved and strengthened with the help of the breath through deep tissue massage of the anus, anal massage and pelvic floor massage, as well as abdominal massage and of course yoni and lingam massage. 

This so-called "Kundalini energy" can, together with your breathing, bring you into a state of light twitching and vibration. At the end of your tantric massage, the energy from the sex center should be distributed throughout the body. This can be done, for example, through an intensive breathing session with "Big Draw". However, very gentle energy balancing exercises can also bring your energy back to normal.

At the end of the session you will go home fulfilled and full of pleasant energy.

Tantric massages are of course very sensual and extremely erotic, but there is no sexual service, no happy ending, but instead more mindfulness and devotion to the process of enjoying and letting go. And of course sometimes ecstasy and heavenly experiences. But don't stress yourself or us - sometimes it takes solid basic work before the energy can unfold.  

We can only accept that many people in our society are very stressed - by work, responsibility, pressure, but also by stereotypical images, pornography, advertising, lifestyle and so on. With tantric massage, we make a contribution to sexual culture to enable more liberation, lightness and depth in intimate encounters.  

Of course you are warmly welcome. Tantra massage is of great healing value, especially for people with different backgrounds and people with disabilities.  

For the success of a tantric ritual, it is unimportant whether the recipient is tall or short, fat or thin, disabled or not, old or young, and so on.

What counts is the ability to let go, to trust and to surrender to this intentionless process. This ability can be learned by anyone. 

I ask everyone who comes for a session to come completely sober. In addition to deep physical contact, we work with subtle energies that you cannot feel if your senses are clouded. So you would not even notice a large part of the session if you were under the influence of drugs or alcohol. 

In general, Tantra suggests opening yourself to other dimensions of yourself. All you need is your physical presence and full awareness. 

In general, Tantra offers the possibility of opening yourself to other dimensions of yourself. All you need is your physical presence and your full awareness. It is your own sexual energy (known differently in other cultures and under other frames of reference: Hara, Chi, creative energy, etc.) that does the work from the moment you are ready to let go of attachment to other behaviors that do not make you happy or that no longer make you happy.

When we start a massage, we are of course freshly showered. We expect the same from our clients. If you have just come home from work, you can of course shower with us. The magic word is running water.